[Episode 42] 7 Signs You’ve Outgrown Business DIY — And What to Do Instead

There’s something really satisfying about figuring things out on your own.

In the early stages of business, DIY is a superpower. You wear all the hats, teach yourself what you need, and keep things running.

But at a certain point, it becomes less freeing — and more exhausting.

If you’ve been feeling like the energy you’re putting in isn’t giving you the results you want, it could be a sign you’ve simply outgrown doing it all yourself.

Here are a few signs that might be showing up for you, and some ideas on what you can do next.

1. You’re caught in trial-and-error loops

You’ve tried multiple systems, strategies, or frameworks — but none of them stick for long. You’re constantly tweaking, researching, or restarting.

This isn’t about discipline. It’s usually a sign you’re craving clarity, not more options.

What helps:

Having a regular planning rhythm and a second set of eyes to simplify the noise. It doesn’t need to be complicated - just consistent.

2. You’re always busy, but feel like you’re going in circles

You’re putting in the hours, but progress feels slow or hard to measure. It’s not that you’re not working — it’s that you’re spread too thin.

What helps:

Choosing one major focus each quarter and giving yourself permission to let the rest wait. Structure brings relief.

3. You’re tired of being the one who has to know everything

You’re great at what you do - but you’re also managing the vision, the numbers, the team, the marketing, and everything in between. And it’s exhausting.

What helps:

Creating space to think out loud with others who understand what it’s like to carry that weight. Even a short, regular check-in can change how you lead.

4. You’re not looking for more motivation — you want clarity

You’re probably not stuck, although may feel that way. You’re probably just overloaded. It’s easy to feel unsure of your next move when you’re juggling so much.

What helps:

A structured space to step back and reset. Sometimes the answers are already there — we just need time and support to hear them.

5. You’re feeling disconnected from the business you built

What once excited you now feels heavy. You might be showing up out of obligation more than inspiration and wondering if it’s supposed to feel this hard.

What helps:

Realigning your goals with the kind of life you actually want. That often starts with asking: what would feel lighter or joyful right now?

6. You want better systems, but don’t have time to build them

There’s a difference between knowing what you should do and having the headspace to actually do it.

What helps:

Simple templates and decision support can take the pressure off. You don’t have to reinvent the wheel — just choose the next right step and make it easier to repeat.

7. You know what to do — you just need help doing it

This is one I hear often. You’ve got good instincts. But without support or accountability, it’s hard to stay consistent - especially when you’re carrying everything else.

What helps:

Being part of a supportive rhythm. Something you don’t have to set up yourself, but can step into with ease and trust.

I hear you, I see you, I understand you

If you’re nodding along to some of these, that doesn’t mean you’re behind. It probably means you’re ready for a different kind of support.

You’ve done the groundwork. Now it might be time to let your business support you - not just the other way around.

And if you’re not sure what the next step looks like, that’s okay too. A small, intentional shift is often where the real momentum begins.

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